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In-Law Suite Additions vs. Detached Units: Determining the Best Option for Your Property

Written by Kevin Ahern | Sep 20, 2024 3:47:39 PM

In 2011, 7% of the US population was living in multi-generational homes. Ten years later, that number had increased to 26%. Multi-generational living has become commonplace, and many people know one or more families living with multiple generations under one roof. 

For most families, multi-generational living is most comfortable when different generations each have their own space. Adding an in-law suite or a detached unit in the back of the house can help families live in harmony. 

The difference between a detached unit and an addition to the primary residence can be significant. Understanding those differences and choosing the right type of residence for your family is important.

While your Connecticut design build contractor can help you through the process, it's important to have conversations in advance of meeting with your contractor, so your entire group is on the same page and ready to have productive discussions about your upcoming construction project.

Difference Between In-Law Suite Additions Vs. Detached Units

An in-law suite addition is a room or set of rooms that's built onto a primary residence, extending the home's footprint and adding to its square footage. There are different configurations, but the suite may add a bedroom and bathroom, or a bedroom, bathroom and living space with a kitchenette. 

A detached unit usually sits back from the property in the rear of the house. Like the in-law suite addition, these units usually include a bedroom, living area with a kitchenette and a separate bathroom. 

Logistical Differences Between the Two Units

The way space is shared between the two types of suites makes a big difference. Though the detached unit may be on the same property and not far from the primary residence, living in a detached unit gives the occupant much more independence and puts more separation between the two parties. 

Attached units bring multi-generational groups closer together and makes maintaining independence more challenging. While this is an advantage for some, it's a disadvantage for others. 

Permitting and Zoning Considerations

Not all communities allow homeowners to build detached units onto their property, and many communities put restrictions on construction projects that could potentially lead homeowners to construct rental units on their property.

For example, you may be able to build a detached unit, but it may not include a full kitchen. Zoning laws vary from one community to the next, so it's important to learn about zoning and permitting requirements in your area. You can find out in your local zoning office or by visiting your city hall. 

Making the Decision

Deciding whether to build an attached or detached unit is something that you'll have to do together as a family. 

Include Everyone Involved

Make decisions as a group. Remodeling and moving in together is a big deal. It's easy to make assumptions and believe that everyone is on the same page, but making assumptions can lead to disagreements, miscommunications and even arguments.

Make your move a success by bringing everyone together for talks about your upcoming remodel. Do this before engaging in discussions with your contractor. This way, when you all come together with your contractor, you'll be able to move forward with your project in an organized fashion. 

Make a Plan

During discussions with your family members about the shared space, ask questions and explore your expectations for your life together.

  • Which spaces will be shared?
  • Where will all parties park their vehicles?
  • Will meals be eaten together or separately?
  • Which areas will be shared/common areas?
  • How much quiet time does each member of the family need for sleep and relaxation?
  • How will bills be paid, and who will pay them?
  • Will there be shared and separate house chores?

Answering these questions will help clarify the situation. Just having these discussions will help you determine whether a detached or attached unit will be best. 

Hiring a Contractor

Once you're ready to build an in-law suite, whether attached or detached, it's important to hire the right professional to get the job done. Connecticut contractors are required to be licensed. You can check your contractor's license through the state's website

Other factors to consider when hiring a contractor include:

  • Experience. Hire a contractor with experience performing the type of work that you're hiring them to do. Look at their portfolio. Talk to clients they've had that did similar work. 
  • Cost. Hire a contractor that performs quality work for a fair price. Low-cost contractors may be cutting corners by hiring unskilled labor, using low-quality materials, or they may be underbidding without even realizing it. Be wary of contractors charging an amount that's far lower than other contractors. 
  • Contract. Hire a contractor that provides a thorough contract. The contract is an important tool for avoiding disputes and ensuring a smooth project from start to finish. 
  • Communication. Communication is key to ensuring a successful construction project. Good communication can prevent disputes and unexpected surprises. Hire a contractor that shows good listening skills, who follows up on emails and phone calls, and who demonstrates an understanding and curiosity about your particular project. 

Ready to Build an Addition or Detached In-Law Suite? Read Our Free Guide

If you've never hired a contractor for a big project like a home addition or building a detached unit, then it's important to have resources that you can turn to for answers to your questions. 

Litchfield Builders offers a free guide to hiring a Connecticut contractor for home remodeling. Hiring the right Connecticut contractor for your job is important, and we can help. Download our guide, or call our office to make an appointment for a consultation to discuss your upcoming work.